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To my addiction:

I have to acknowledge, that I'm thru waking up sick, sad and sorry for my actions. By saying such my time living has changed since my last drink or use. Just by experiencing a life in addiction, my goal is to use my story to help others and paying it forward and sharing my journey through life.

During my duration in recovery ❤️‍🩹 has drastically changed my view of who I am as a person/ individual. My mindset towards wanting to go back to where I was in the last three months before I made up my mind to come to Back On track Recovery located in Surrey,BC. My mindset is vastly/ surprisingly different!

Through using prayer 🙏, journaling and a positive mindset gives me hope for my future. If I was to look at myself in the past, I was looking unhealthy and depressed. Not only was I in a dark place, my body is healing and I can finally look at myself in the mirror again with a smile on my face.

Towards how I'm going in the future in a positive aspect, I plan to use support structures set up already before I even think of leaving the program.

That being said, To describe how I am going to stay on the red road is by continuing what I've learned in past actions to stay sober. Those actions towards sobriety are firstly, finishing my program here in recovery ❤️‍🩹. And by saying and proving to myself that I'm able to change my life around is amazing.

Secondly I am a alcoholic and suffer from a disease that must be stopped. It's killing those that are loved and just by saying such is hurtful and I'm finally seeing how it would be living sober and seeing the sunshine ☀️ over the horizon 🌄.

Thirdly and finally can I be there for myself and learn to be a support person for my children. My babies need their father back. As I need to be someone who is reliable and can be their inspiration as long as the creator 🙏 leads me across life step by step.

 

With those words being* said, I have to say "Goodbye to my addiction/ alcoholism and I won't miss you!".

 

Sincerely,

Trevor Carlick 85'

Services

Mental Health Workshops

How do we assess our problems that come with mental health ?, And how do overcome them?. My belief is that if we are to face such obstacles we need guidance from positive reinforcement and I've added links that have helped develop growth.

Personalized Recovery Plans

A personalised recovery plan should outline specific steps tailored to an individual's needs and goals, focusing on physical, mental, and emotional well-being. It should include establishing healthy routines, identifying and managing triggers, building a strong support system, and developing coping mechanisms for challenges. A sample plan might include: committing to a balanced diet and regular sleep schedule, practising mindfulness techniques, attending support group meetings, and seeking professional help when needed.
Here's a more detailed breakdown of what a personalised recovery plan might include:

1. Define Goals and Motivations:
Identify reasons for recovery:
What are the individual's motivations for wanting to change? (e.g., family, job, improved health).
Set realistic and achievable goals:
These should be specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART).
Acknowledge potential challenges:
Identify potential barriers to recovery and develop strategies to overcome them (e.g., cravings, social situations, emotional triggers).

2. Physical Wellness:
Healthy Diet: Work with a nutritionist or dietitian to develop a balanced meal plan that supports recovery.
Regular Exercise: Incorporate physical activities that the individual enjoys, such as walking, swimming, or yoga.
Sleep Hygiene: Establish a consistent sleep schedule to promote restful sleep.
Medical Appointments: Ensure regular check-ups and address any physical health concerns.

3. Emotional and Mental Wellness:
Mindfulness and Meditation:
Practice techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or yoga to manage stress and anxiety.
Journaling:
Reflect on thoughts and feelings to gain self-awareness and process emotions.
Support Groups:
Attend 12-step meetings, SMART Recovery, or other support groups for connection and shared experiences.
Therapy:
Engage in individual or group therapy with a qualified professional to address underlying issues and develop coping mechanisms.
Creative Outlets:
Explore activities like art, music, or writing to express emotions and find healthy distractions.

4. Building a Strong Support System:
Family and Friends:
Communicate openly with loved ones about recovery goals and seek their support.
Peer Support:
Connect with others in recovery through support groups or online communities.
Professional Help:
Maintain regular contact with therapists, counsellors, or other healthcare professionals.

5. Relapse Prevention:
Identify Triggers: Recognise situations, places, or emotions that may trigger cravings or relapse.
Develop Coping Strategies: Prepare specific actions to take when faced with triggers (e.g., leave a triggering situation, call a support person, practice mindfulness).
Create a Crisis Plan: Identify emergency contacts and resources to access in case of a crisis.

6. Lifestyle Changes:
Structured Routine: Establish a daily schedule that includes work, hobbies, social activities, and self-care.
Healthy Hobbies: Engage in activities that promote well-being and provide healthy distractions.
Stress Management: Learn and practice stress-reducing techniques.
Self-Care: Prioritise activities that bring joy and relaxation.
Example:
Goal: Maintain sobriety and improve overall well-being.
Motivations: Rebuild relationships with family and friends, improve physical health, and regain self-respect.
Triggers: Social gatherings with alcohol, stress, and conflict with loved ones.
Coping Strategies: Attend 12-step meetings regularly, practice mindfulness techniques, and engage in regular exercise.
Support System: Attend weekly therapy sessions, connect with a sponsor, and communicate with family and friends about recovery progress.
Relapse Prevention: If experiencing cravings, immediately remove myself from the situation, call my sponsor, and practice deep breathing exercises.
By creating a personalised recovery plan with specific goals, strategies, and support systems, individuals can increase their chances of successful and sustained recovery.

How does Music help with sobriety and where does it provide a positive place in Recovery? 

Music can release a positive empowering response especially when in recovery:

It can influence mood, reduce stress and anxiety, and even affect brain chemistry by releasing dopamine that helps reduce cortisol which affects our stress levels. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the goal of my way to give back and pay it forward?

  • To provide positive personal feedback to those that need support in reaching out for their journey in recovery.
  • Help community to the best of our ability with seeking help through treatment, counseling and local support structures.

My Story (How I got to where I'm at):

There comes a time in a person’s life that he learns that enough is enough, but how do we get there? Like what goes through a person’s life that makes us do what we do daily to get our fix? And does it really matter if it’s alcohol or drugs? I thought so at one point in my journey to recovery, and it wasn’t till I finally caved in to the idea t that stuck out to me. I am an addict, and I suffer through a disease that has been killing everyone I care about. It’s taken everything away from me and those I love and care for. Why did I wait till I was drinking hand sanitizer, mouthwash and pretty much everything I could get my hands on that contained that substance that steals away my mentality and self-empowerment.

 

          Don’t we all suffer from this malady of substance abuse? And thinking to myself always when I was looking for reasons on how to get my next drink no matter the abuse I’ve already succumbed my body to. And to tell the truth, I didn’t care. All that mattered was to get that next fix, no matter what I had to do to get it. Sure, I wasn’t as bad as those doing drugs around me, is all I told myself trying to justify my need or want of ridding myself of being sick. But I was sick, and honestly, I was on the self-destructive path to death.

 

          It took me a lifelong path of drinking to get to this point in my life, and by understanding that all the shit I put my body was toxic to my health both mentally and physically. Understand yourself is paramount to your recovery and believe me stubbornness is a vast part of why we as addicts continue our lives beating ourselves up and treating ourselves like shit.

 

          Another key part of my life in addiction is the fact that it stole my children's father, as not only was I not there for them. But I was a failure as a positive role model for them to look up to. And didn’t I promise myself I wouldn’t let my children to be raised in a completely different world then I had to as a child. This is a key point that I’m trying to get across by sharing my own personal journey in recovery and to put it blunt of all the shit that I did to escape my problems and plainly say that I was running away from my duties as a father, a partner and a human being.

 

          Spirit, strength and hope is all I’m trying to get across and self-empowerment towards the individual that is us as a beautiful part in the world. Tell yourself, you are amazing. You are beautiful, you are a child of the great blue sky. As wouldn’t our ancestors want the best for us? And don’t they want the best for us? Life is hard at times but believe me when I tell you that it’ll kick you in the fucking ass if you let it.

Can I request a personalized recovery plan tailored to my specific needs?

Yes, we offer personalized recovery plans that are tailored to your unique needs and goals. Get in touch with us to discuss your requirements.

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Inspirational Tidbits With Coffee ☕️ & Music 🎶 is a recovery-focused non profit organisation based in Whitehorse, Yukon Territory, dedicated to promoting mental wellness through personal experiences, music, and community support. Our mission is to empower individuals to better understand and care for their mental health.